Tag : WOTY 2020

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As we all are fully aware of…this year has been been a crazy one. I can only imagine the chapters in the history books devoted to this time. I had no idea what was in store when I decided on my 2020 Word of the Year: Mindful.

Practicing being mindful has been at the forefront for me lately. Taking time to reflect on the day, the little things is so important. Especially when the days all begin to drift together. Same place, same people, same tasks, same conversations…same, same, same. It’s easy to get discouraged, disheartened or depressed. I know…I have struggled with this as well.

I keep circling back to my WOTY. Mindful can mean different things to different people at different times. Often times for me being mindful means having gratitude. Not in the writing a thank you note type of gratitude but being appreciative of the things we so often take for granted. Food security, shelter, a job, your health, a working vehicle just to name a few.

This crazy year has made me and so many others very mindful of all the old timey skills that had almost been forgotten. I’ve written a couple posts on this in the past. The skills of our ancestors are essential, and must not be forgotten.

With the whole country dealing with some form of food insecurity this year, it had me baking bread, expanding my garden, pickling, canning, fermenting and drying herbs just off the top of my head. Fermenting was a new skill I learned over the summer, I made kimchi and sauerkraut.  I also learned that I could get a second crop of a few items in my garden…something I’d never thought about trying in zone 4. Now that I know this, I will continue to be mindful when planning new my crops.

Being mindful of how my actions or lack of action affect others was also on my heart. Sewing masks for my family and friends was a no brainer for me but also making a bunch of extras to donate to the elder community only made sense as well. Taking care of our fellow man is important to me. Sometimes financial help isn’t exactly what is needed. It can be as simple as a smile, a kind word, help with yard work…you get the picture. Be kind, do good things.

During the beginning of the lockdown and subsequent at home all-the-time period, I found myself like so many others, sitting more, eating more and generally lacking in healthy choices. After a while I realized that this was going in a very bad direction. I decided to make a change and began being mindful of my choices. I started walking a couple miles most days, adding more fresh fruits & veggies to diet and cutting back on empty calories such as drinks and junk food. It’s simple in theory…harder in application. I am happy with the results of my choices though…to date, I have lost over 20 lbs. I am ever mindful this is not a diet, this is a lifestyle change. I have been down this road before. Making big changes with big impact then falling back to the old easy habits. Thankfully having been through this before I am acutely aware of the importance of remaining mindful of my choices.

As I choose a new WOTY for 2021, I will not forget the lessons that my previous words of the year have taught me and continue to be mindful in my daily life.

Since choosing my Word of the Year for 2020, I have been working at keeping that word in the forefront. You could say I have been MINDFUL of my word.

One of my goals in this coming year…and basically every year previous is to make healthier choices. I don’t want this to fall to the wayside at my first slip-up as has happened so many times in the past. I decided to take a cue from some of the successful behavior modification programs I’ve been a part of with students. I’m focusing on the positives…not the negatives.

Often students will have a sticker chart or a ticket system to earn breaks, trinkets or game time. I thought this could work with myself as well after realizing how much the silly achievement badges from Fitbit actually motivated me.

I wanted to get a planner to record my achievements in but haven’t had the chance. I decided not to let that stop me and grabbed a journal/notebook that I’ve been using for random bits.

I set myself up with a box of supplies so it is at the ready when I am to sit down and record. It’s not pretty or even neatly planned but sometimes life isn’t either.

I feel that setting myself up to be successful will enable me to create this mindful habit of celebrating life’s little achievements instead of beating myself up about my shortcomings.

It’s said that it only takes 21 days to create a habit…looks like I’m on my way.

Each year I select a word to be my guide throughout the year. Some years I do better than others to keep my word in the forefront.

This year I chose Mindful.

Being mindful has a place in all aspects of life.

Mindful of the products I bring into our home.

Mindful of the words I choose to use.

Mindful of the impact I have on others and others have on me.

Taking time to be mindful of how much I consume, meaning both internally and externally. It all has an impact.

Mindful of the legacy I leave.

Give mindful thought before making commitments.

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The end of the year…the decade…it should give us all pause. Time to think back on the past decade…the good, the bad and the ugly. Of course, things are already set but think of what could we do better, do more of, do less of? What has changed…10 years is a long time especially when you have kids. I came into this decade with kids in the single digits…now I have an adult, nearly 20, and another, close to adulthood.

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